I saw this posted on the Twisted Stitcher's blog.  It it is what I am working towards.  Learning to respect and love myself and move forward with my life in a positive way.  I have a long way to go before I will be ready or able to share my life again with someone else.  But I wanted to be able to see these words whenever I need a reminder of the course I am on.

"I can't be all things to all people and I deserve to be treated as I wish to be treated. I try to always treat others as I wish to be treated (try being the operative word). I must remember, I'm not a dog begging for leftovers from the table. I deserve to eat from the banquet too."

Vonna's words spoke to me.